How to become selfish in a right way?
“I know it’s human nature to be selfish. But you can be selfish in a right way too”.
When you are selfish in a wrong way, you think only about your comforts. But when you are selfish in a right way, you think about your morals and peace.
Selfishness brings you closer to materialistic comforts whereas selfishness in a right way brings you closer to spiritual wealth.
The methods to become selfish in a right way:
- Help others so that you will have self satisfaction: Help who are in need and see how you feel. You will have a great feeling that you never experienced. By helping others you are bringing more happiness in you and be selfish in this way.
- Give without expecting: when you give someone without expecting that is a true help and do this all the time as you can grow mental peace. This way you get the peace that’s unlimited as you expect nothing from others.
“If you expect and help others, it becomes a business. So if you really want to help, help without expecting from others.”
3. Share, to leave your loneliness: Share your joy and sadness with others all the time.
“Your happiness gets amplified when you share it and your sadness gets decreased, when you share it”.
Think this way and become selfish in a right way as it will help you stay away from loneliness.
4. Treat others, same as you: When you need respect from others, you need to give it.
So always treat others the way you want them to treat you. This way you will be kind and good to everyone and this helps you gain respect from others and also helps you gain self respect.
5. Learn all the time: Learn as much as possible so that you can use that knowledge, practically for others and get expertise.
These are few ways you can use to become selfish in a right way.
