Why I am jealous at kids and pity too?

“Kids are real as they don’t overthink and they enjoy their life, not caring judgement of anyone.”

I had a childhood, and I was real. I saw the children who are real and so I am jealous of them but pity too as even their childhood is temporary, just like mine.

All of us are once children and we didn’t run behind happiness or success. We didn’t suffer confusion or regret. We only did one thing that is lived the life without trying to find what it is.

But now it’s all different. We run behind happiness without trying to find out, what makes us thrilled. We run behind success not knowing what is the success for us. We suffer every day with confusion in life. We suffer regret for wrong choices we made.

As grown-ups, we learnt several habits which are artificial and bad. We learnt fear. Fear of risk, fear of failure, fear of judgement, etc. We spend much of life in suffering fear and confusion.

When we are children, we used to laugh and smile heart fully but now, it’s mostly the fake. We used to take risks without fearing about result but now we fear risks and tries to be safe all the time, taking no risks.

“Not taking any risk is the biggest risk, and it inhibits the growth.”

There is a lot of variation that you can clearly observe in yourself from your childhood.

Did you ever ask yourself, “What happened to that child in you?”

The answer is easy. They grew up now and they are no more children. They are grown ups with a lot of false limits in their life.

What if you were that kid, wouldn’t you have been happy? Wouldn’t you have taken risks? Would you care, what others think about you? Wouldn’t you take risk?

If the child is still alive in you, your life would have been very different and helpful.

But most of us had already killed such real and precious kids in us. Therefore, we suffer and regret. We don’t get happiness and we are always in confusion.

If you bring the kid in you to life again. You would:

• Take risks without caring results.
• Accept failures and enjoy them.
• Not care about anyone’s judgement.
• Always find happiness in everything.
• Have more clarity than confusion.
• Be real all the time.
• Cry and laugh really.
• Take decisions instantly
• Have the simple life.
• Never care about life and just do what you wanted to do.
• Get unlimited joy of living.

There are so many benefits if you bring the child in you to life and with common sense you have gained, you can make use of the child in you do more wonders than blunders. Even if you did blunders, you would learn from them and enjoy your mistakes.

“The child in you can do wonders and if blunders happen, learning from them makes wonders itself.”

Now it’s time for you to unlearn your existing fake habits and learn natural habits from your childhood. This makes you again real, happy and peaceful.

Children learn from you. You need to teach them to be real and true. Don’t let them become like false you, teaching them wrong limits, you have been carrying all your life in your head.

Happy childhood again 😇